Most resolutions collapse by February. Here’s the system high performers use instead
It’s a new year, which means millions of people are setting resolutions they genuinely want to keep.
We want to eat better. Move more. Make more money. Finally get control of our time. We’re taking advantage of the Fresh Start Effect, a principle rooted in the idea that people often view new beginnings as an opportunity to distance themselves from past failures and shortcomings. This can lead to a psychological reset, where we experience a renewed sense of optimism, self-efficacy, and motivation, common around the New Year.
And yet, by February, most of this motivation will quietly evaporate—not because people don’t care, but because the way we set resolutions is fundamentally flawed.
Why most resolutions fail—even when you really want them to work
As a culture, New Year’s resolutions are tests of your personal discipline. If you stick with them, you’re committed. If you don’t, you “fell off the wagon.” Cue the familiar guilt/shame spiral.
But new behavioral research suggests something very different.
A 2025 multi-country study examining goal persistence found that the strongest predictor of whether someone follows through on a resolution isn’t willpower, discipline, or even how specific the goal is. It’s intrinsic motivation—whether the behavior itself feels personally meaningful and rewarding, rather than externally pressured.
In other words, people don’t abandon resolutions because they lack grit. They abandon them because the goal never fit into their real lives in the first place. That helps explain why the most common resolution formats—rigid, outcome-focused goals set once a year—tend to collapse under pressure.
The hidden problem with outcome-based goals
Most resolutions are framed as endpoints: lose 20 pounds, run a marathon, read 50 books, get promoted.
They sound motivating, but behavioral scientists increasingly argue that these outcome-first goals are poorly suited for behavior change. In fact, research suggests that popular frameworks like S.M.A.R.T. goals are no more effective than telling someone to “do your best” when it comes to sustaining new habits.
These types of goals skip the hardest part: the messy bridge between who you are today and who you’re trying to become.
Tiffany Clevinger is a high-performance hypnotist who says, “It’s better to make identity-based goals over outcome-based goals . . . Who am I becoming in the process?” She suggests reframing a goal like “Save more money” to an identity target of “Become someone who is more responsible with money.”
When progress inevitably slows, outcome-based goals create a psychological trap. You’re either “on track” or you’ve failed. Miss a few workouts or break a streak, and guilt creeps in. Shame follows. Motivation drops. The resolution quietly fades. But some high performers know how to avoid this trap altogether.
Why you should think in weeks, not years
People who consistently change their behavior don’t rely on annual resolutions. They design systems that create momentum every week, not once a year.
Weeks offer fast feedback. They allow room for course correction. They make it easier to recover from setbacks without abandoning the entire goal. Instead of asking, “Can I do this for a year?” they ask, “Can I do this easily this week?”
And, as Clevinger explains, you can still take advantage of the Fresh Start Effect. “Instead of looking at January 1st as being the only fresh start, we can look at every Monday as being a micro fresh start,” she says. “It feels so much lighter, so much easier for the nervous system to commit to.”
This shift—from outcomes to process, from years to weeks—is where sustainable change begins.
Want to try it out? Here’s a science-backed alternative to traditional resolutions, based on our work at Lifehack Method with thousands of professionals who are trying to change real habits inside already full lives.
Step 1: Choose one identity shift plus one small habit
Behavior change is not easy. Each new habit competes for attention, energy, and willpower. Consistent achievers know this, which is why they focus on a single identity shift they’d genuinely like to evolve—not a full personality overhaul. Their focus is on long-term durability, not 75-hard level intensity.
A one percent improvement repeated daily compounds far more reliably than a burst of motivation followed by exhaustion, guilt, and abandonment. As Atomic Habits author James Clear notes, “If you get one percent better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done.”
For example, if you want to become the sort of person who takes care of their body, the one small habit you might commit to is to drink a glass of water each morning when you wake up. As this becomes more automatic, and you have success, you might add an additional small habit such as cooking a healthy breakfast each day.
The early stages should feel almost underwhelming—because the system is designed to work after motivation fades, not while it’s high. If it feels boring, you’re probably doing it right.
Step 2: Add a number to make progress tracking easy
Vague resolutions fail because they don’t give the brain anything concrete to act on. Adding a simple numeric anchor—minutes, frequency, pages—turns a wish into a decision. “Exercise more” becomes “jog for 30 minutes twice a week.” “Read more” becomes “read 30 pages before bed.”
This isn’t to make them more rigid, it’s to increase their clarity. Clear commitments reduce mental friction and give you a satisfying sense of “doneness.” They are harder to wiggle out of, especially on days when motivation is low.
Step 3: Identify the friction before it shows up
Most people plan for success and hope obstacles won’t appear. But people who stick to their goals assume friction is inevitable, and plan accordingly.
Fear, overambition, scheduling conflicts, travel, and fatigue are highly predictable barriers. The more explicitly you identify what might derail a habit, the easier it becomes to respond without spiraling into self-criticism.
Asking, “What stones are in my path that I need to clear?” is a mental shift that keeps you focused on achieving your target for the long term.
Step 4: Borrow motivation from structure and accountability
Willpower is unreliable, especially when you’re already juggling work, family, and constant digital demands.
That’s why external structure matters. Research on behavior change consistently shows that accountability increases follow-through by introducing eustress—positive, motivating pressure that reduces the cognitive load of self-regulation.
Behavioral scientist Susan Ibitz points to her experience in the military as an extreme but illuminating example. The environment created by the sergeants and soldiers creates momentum; action becomes easier because the structure removes friction. She encourages those of us to design structure into our own lives, starting with someone who can hold us accountable. “You need to find a cheerleader who is not your mom. You need someone who sees real value in you, not because they love you,” Ibitz says.
By joining a social mastermind or working with an accountability partner or coach, you’ll gain a supportive environment that calls you to the mat in a loving way. When accountability is built into your environment, it keeps you on task when willpower fades.
Step 5: Put the habit on your calendar—or it doesn’t exist
Habits don’t form through intention alone. They form through repetition in a specific context.
Research suggests that simple habits can become more automatic within roughly two months, while more complex behaviors take longer. The mistake most people make is assuming the habit will “find a place” in their schedule.
It won’t.
Blocking time on your calendar—accounting for travel, energy levels, and realistic constraints—turns the habit into a commitment instead of a hope. Many people also find success by chaining a new habit to an existing one, reducing the mental effort required to start.
Step 6: Use rewards
Reward is one of the most underused levers in habit formation, especially among high achievers who are often more comfortable with self-criticism than self-reinforcement.
Some people rely on negative incentives, like penalties for missed actions. While these can work short-term, they often undermine intrinsic motivation over time.
Positive rewards are different. They reinforce identity. They make the process itself feel worthwhile. For example, rewarding yourself with a quick walk around the neighborhood, a bike ride, frisbee with your dog, or a break from work to watch inspiring TED videos is all it takes sometimes to make the juice worth the squeeze.
Think of it as an insurance plan against failure, rather than an unnecessary indulgence.
Why this system works when resolutions don’t
Traditional resolutions ask people to change their behavior without changing the system around that behavior. But the people who make lasting changes aren’t more disciplined than everyone else. They’re more focused on identity-based, consistent change.
By focusing on intrinsic motivation, weekly momentum, structural support, and realistic planning, the goal shifts from “perfect execution” to “staying in the game.” Miss a week, and you don’t fail—you get up and try again.
They stop trying to reinvent themselves every January and start designing habits they can live with in February, March, and beyond.
So if 2026 is going to be different, it won’t be because you wanted it more. It will be because you built a system that made change easier to sustain.
